Things to Ask Your Wedding Photographer (And How to Know You’ve Found the Right One)
Choosing a wedding photographer can feel overwhelming, especially when you search for things like “wedding photographer Surrey UK” and you’re met with hundreds of results. You might love someone’s photos but still feel unsure. Will we feel comfortable? Will the photos feel like us? What if we make the wrong choice?
If you’re currently searching for a wedding photographer, you’re probably trying to balance excitement with a lot of uncertainty. This guide is here to give you a checklist of things to think about, and questions to ask, so you can understand what actually matters and feel confident in your decision.
If you’re still at the very beginning of your search, you might also find it helpful to read my guide on how to choose a wedding photographer in Surrey without feeling overwhelmed.
Why Choosing the Right Photographer Feels So Hard
For many couples, photography is one of the most emotionally loaded parts of wedding planning.
Your photos aren’t just for the day itself, they’re what you’ll return to years from now. They’ll remind you how it felt to be there, not just how it looked. That’s why choosing the right photographer matters more than people often realise.
A good photographer doesn’t just take photos; they notice moments, emotion, connection, and atmosphere. And that starts with feeling comfortable around them.
Questions to Ask Wedding Photographer Before You Book
If you’re unsure where to start, these are some of the most important things to ask your wedding photographer, and yourselves, to help you make the right decision.
Will we feel comfortable around them on the day?
This is one of the biggest worries couples have, even if they don’t always say it out loud.
If you’re not comfortable, it shows in the photos. A calm, unobtrusive photographer helps you relax, forget about the camera, and enjoy your day as it naturally unfolds. My aim is to blend into the background as much as possible, so you can forget about me and just be yourself.
If you’re drawn to candid photography, this is especially important. The best natural wedding photos happen when people aren’t forcing themselves to look a certain way; they’re simply going about their wedding day as if the photographer isn’t there.
What if we feel awkward in front of the camera?
Almost everyone does — and that’s completely normal.
If you’re looking for wedding photography Surrey couples actually enjoy, your photographer should guide you gently during couple photos without making you feel posed or self-conscious, and then allow you to enjoy the rest of the day as it unfolds.
The best moments often happen when you’re not thinking about the camera at all.
Have you photographed weddings like ours before?
This doesn’t necessarily mean the same venue. When the focus of the photos is on emotions and moments rather than the setting, prior venue experience matters far less.
What does help is understanding the feel of your day. For example, you might be having your ceremony in one location and your reception in another, or you may have chosen a more unusual venue, like this restaurant wedding reception I photographed earlier this year.
If these are things your photographer has experienced before, it can help the day run more smoothly because they know what to expect.
Whether your wedding is relaxed, intimate, lively or emotional, your photographer should adapt to you, not the other way around.
If you’re browsing wedding photos Surrey, notice which galleries feel natural rather than staged.
What’s included, and what can we expect after the wedding?
This is one of the most important things to ask your wedding photographer. You’ll want to understand:
How many images you’ll receive
How long editing takes
How your photos will be delivered
By having this information early, you can avoid any stress later on. (You can find all of this information at the bottom of my homepage.)
Why Connection Matters More Than Perfection
Your wedding day isn’t a photoshoot, it’s a day full of emotion, connection, and fleeting moments.
The right photographer will help you feel present, calm and confident. When you feel at ease, your photos naturally reflect that. That’s why I always bring a relaxed, chilled-out energy to each wedding I photograph, and why I work best with couples who share that same mindset.
Choosing someone whose approach aligns with you really does make all the difference.
Looking for a Wedding Photographer in Surrey?
If you’re currently searching for a wedding photographer in Surrey or Hampshire and want your photos to feel natural, relaxed and honest, I’d love to hear about your plans. However don’t worry if you’re not getting married in Surrey or Hampshire, I photograph weddings all over the world, and I’m always happy to travel.
You can explore my portfolio to see real weddings I’ve photographed, or get in touch for a relaxed, no-pressure chat to see if we’re a good fit.
